Ghosting: Why Men And Women Do It
Men are always considered the main culprits when it comes to ghosting. Women are constantly asking dating gurus...Why did he ghost me? Even Mathew Hussey got involved. He is the dating advice God to women, (women flock to his “The Matthew Hussey Retreat”). He asked women, what is the number one question they want to ask men. Majority of the women's response - Why Do Men Ghost?
Hmmm...I think the question has a simple answer. Why do women show no interest in men that are trying to pursue or are attracted to them? She has no interest in pursuing a relationship with him, therefore, she stops all communication. In other words, she ghosts.
Here are a few top answers as to why men and women ghost.
They are just not that into you. You may not like this answer but if someone wants to be with you, they will find a way to be with you.
They feel you are wasting their time. The two of you have been messaging or chatting for months but neither of you has made a move because of fear. Eventually, someone is going to move on.
The guy or girl has a boyfriend. For months, a relationship of interest has been brewing and then it goes cold? Either they were trying to pursue another individual and got busted. They have or found a significant other.
They don't want drama. Nobody wants to tell someone they don't want to continue to see them. And they definitely don't want to tell them why. In order to avoid the questions and have someone try to change to make it work. It is simpler to walk away.
Insecure. Sometimes people just feel they can't live up to someone's expectations or they are not good enough for someone.
They want options: They have a crush on someone else or they are keeping their options open. Either way, it's not you.
Complete Asshole. Let's just face it. When it comes to dating men and women can be complete Assholes. They are too selfish to realize their actions hurt.